This time of year always makes me think about gatherings,
both of family and friends. Although loved ones certainly do visit on other occasions
throughout the year, it’s the holidays that call us together. Folks tend to
travel from far and near, making fellowship a priority. The ties that bind us
become just a little bit stronger. And when I remember such gatherings during
my childhood, I think about…the dining room table.
My mom usually hosted our family gatherings, and following
the feast, the men inevitably retired to the living room while the women
lingered around the table. My mom being of British descent, and tea being
endemic, every female from the youngest to the eldest had a teacup in front of
her. Conversation would range widely, from current news to relatives who were no
longer with us. The tea leaves would be read, and stories would abound. I can’t
help but wonder how those conversations contributed to the woman—and the
writer—I am.
My mom has long since gone to join those deceased relations
of whom we spoke. And I’ll admit, our gatherings had become little more than a
fond memory for me. But life is funny. Recently I had a chance to get together
with a cousin I hadn’t seen in more than a decade. We met not at my mother’s,
but my daughter’s home. We sat around her dining room table sharing tea and
stories of relations past and present. And, do you know what? The old feelings
came flooding back—I felt the same comfortable sense of belonging and acceptance,
and the tightening of those ties that bind.
I believe that pieces of those who went before us, travel
with us. They are imparted in words shared, in laughter, and often in the wisdom
of women. Maybe that’s why I love words so much. And maybe that’s why when we
gather around a table, it means far more than a meal shared. This year, when
you gather around your holiday tables, may the words you share come straight from
the heart.
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Christmastime On Donner’s Mountain
For most of her life, Becca Monroe’s been running. The urge
to see what lay beyond the next horizon took her away from Donner’s Mountain
and the man she loved. Now, back for what will surely be her grandfather’s last
Christmas, she’s caught in a tangle of unresolved emotions that leave her torn
between the impulse to flee and the desire to stay.
Jack Donner never stopped loving Becca, even though she
deserted him. Better than anyone else, he knows how cruel it would be to fetter
her wild spirit, and he doubts she could ever be happy living in one place, on
his mountain.
Can memories of Christmases past remind Becca what truly
matters? And can love convince Jack to give her one more chance, even if it
means risking his battered heart?
What a beautiful post, Laura. Thank you for sharing your beautiful words.
ReplyDeleteLoved your post and pictures! Thanks for sharing! Beautiful cover.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely reflection on family holiday gatherings!
ReplyDeleteA lovely post, Laura. Such wonderful memories you have of the women gathered round, drinking tea. I lived in England and Scotland for a while, so tea is big for me, as well. Love the cover of your book, too!
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