Please welcome Griffin Stone of Shatterproof...
So, Griffin, tell us a little about yourself.
Coming from the home I
did, I needed to find something to keep me grounded. Otherwise, my anger
at my parents was going to lead me towards a lot of destruction. When I
was introduced to sculpture, everything else just faded away. I was
able to transfer all that was brewing inside of me into the clay. It
brought me to a world that was my own, away from my mother’s abuse and
my inability to help her. It was my salvation. That is, until I met
What is it about Frankie that made you decide to take the risk of being with her?
is vibrant and unpredictable. She sees things for what they can be, not
just what they are. She thinks her impulsive ways are a flaw, but I
think they’re part of what makes her unforgettable. She reminds me very
much of how my mother used to be.
Holly’s House is obviously very important to you. Could you tell us a little about that?
women’s shelter is the only thing in my life that ever gave me purpose.
Sculpting the women at Holly’s, giving them back pieces of themselves,
and reminding them that they are beautiful both inside and outside,
allows me to help in some small way. Even if my mother never listens to
me or finds a way out, at least I can be there for someone else’s
mother, aunt, or friend.
Your former teacher, Mr. Rothman, plays an important part in your life. Care to discuss him?
are no words to describe how grateful I am to Roth. He showed me an
alternative, showed me how to breathe for the first time. Not only did
he set my life in motion in a positive way, but he continues to guide me
when I’m falling back into the darkness. Without him, I would have
turned out to be an entirely different man.
What is your opinion of Frankie’s photography?
first time I met Frankie, at Holly’s House, I had no idea what she was
taking pictures of. It just looked like garbage to me. But when she
showed me what some old crumpled up tissue paper could turn into, I was
amazed. She finds beauty in the ordinary. It is an incredible gift. I
find myself wanting to see things through her eyes, to get a different
perspective and be exposed to some of the beauty that she discovers
What would you need in order to be truly happy?
would need my mother to get the hell away from my father, I’d need to
know, unequivocally, that I am nothing like him, and I’d need Frankie by
my side through it all.
If you could give one pieces of advice to our readers, what would it be?
in yourself. Your past doesn’t have to dictate your future. The quicker
you learn that, the quicker you can start to be exactly who you want to